Growing independence: A life beyond the nest by Carine Human

Growing independence: A life beyond the nest by Carine Human

At Camphill Village life unfolds in a truly unique way. Set on a working farm, our community offers adults with intellectual disabilities the opportunity to live, learn, and grow within a supportive, vibrant environment. Here, daily life is meaningful and engaging, whether tending to the vegetable gardens, working in the dairy, preparing meals in the central kitchen, or contributing to the rhythm of farm and household life.

The farm is, without question, a beautiful place. It offers open spaces, fresh air, and a strong sense of purpose. At the same time, it calls for resilience. Living and working here means embracing the elements, building physical strength and endurance, and becoming part of a team that relies on everyone’s contribution. It is an environment that encourages courage, motivation, and personal growth.

For young adults, this presents a powerful opportunity. At Camphill, individuals are supported to set goals, develop skills, and grow into capable, confident people. They are not only cared for—they are empowered. They learn the value of work, the importance of community, and the satisfaction of contributing meaningfully to everyday life.

For parents, the transition can feel significant. The idea of a child leaving home, especially a child with additional needs, can be deeply emotional. Yet, just as with any young person stepping into adulthood, this transition is an important part of growth. Allowing young adults the space to explore independence, helps them build identity, confidence, and life skills that cannot be developed in the same way within the family home.

In a well-supported and nurturing environment like Camphill, young adults are given the freedom to learn, to try, and even to make mistakes, safely. This is how growth happens. Family life remains central and cherished, with home visits becoming special, meaningful occasions to reconnect and celebrate progress.

Sometimes this step toward independence is only considered during times of crisis, when families are faced with illness, aging, or other major life changes. While these moments can prompt necessary decisions, they can also place additional emotional strain on everyone involved, particularly the young adult who must adjust to significant changes all at once.

By planning proactively, families can create a more gradual, positive transition. Just as we prepare for our own futures, it is equally important to consider the future of our children. Young adults with intellectual disabilities deserve the same opportunities as any school leaver: the chance to step out into the world, to discover their strengths, and to build a life of purpose and connection.

At Camphill Village, we believe in this journey. We believe in everyone’s potential to grow, to contribute, and to lead a meaningful life. Taking that first step away from the nest may feel daunting—but it can also be the beginning of something deeply enriching.

We invite you to explore what is possible. Please visit our next market on 3 May or contact us for more information on sw-office@camphill.org.za.

We look forward to discovering with you.